[How much he knows about her, and doesn't know about her, matters little enough. He understands enough to have something of a context for her. He knows she's been through something terrible, and came out of it a better person than he is. The details, he doesn't need. If she needs to tell them, that's different.]

Neither was mine. But most of my dreams came from better times. Maybe some found most of their dreams drawn from worse times.